Courtesy, manners and tradition

[Medusa]

I got into a hassle with one woman who was the worst piece of crap on the planet. This 'woman' was an effing troll -with a bad wig to boot- and a real work of art.

her last name. HitShed.

she was too stupid or nasty to elevate


Sorry, I went to Catholic school and they taught me manners.

So Richard...which part of the above is considered to be good manners? I understand resenting being condescended to but do you think that responding in kind improves the situation or makes it worse? I think you're better than that.

[RICHARD]

So Richard...which part of the above is considered to be good manners? I understand resenting being condescended to but do you think that responding in kind improves the situation or makes it worse? I think you're better than that.

Ah,

She came down on my chacha in the rudest manner- talking me to 'task' in front of a desk of nurses. She was a clerk and it was her thing to embarass people in front of others.

I never 'dissed' her in front of anyone. I always held my tongue and treated her the way I wanted to be treated. But, god help me, I never could or would ever consider this miserable woman as anything equal to me.

I kept my evil thoughts in my head and never said a cross word to her face.
I waited until I went back to my offoce and did the slow burn on the way.

MY dad always told me to smile when face to face with a person and you can say chinga tu madre to them in your head.

[carole]

Woah that sounds rather a nice way of saying something so bad, he he, i looked it up and i know what it means Richard lol.

[Medusa]

MY dad always told me to smile when face to face with a person and you can say chinga tu madre to them in your head.

I'm no saint and don't pretend to be but I think I'll stick to doing something that I was taught: shoot them in the back w/love. I can get riled but experience has taught me "least said, easiest mended" whether in my head or in actuality. And I think it's best to leave one's mother out of it.

[RICHARD]

I'm no saint and don't pretend to be but I think I'll stick to doing something that I was taught: shoot them in the back w/love. I can get riled but experience has taught me "least said, easiest mended" whether in my head or in actuality. And I think it's best to leave one's mother out of it.

I decapitated this piece of garbage with my 'love' and she remained a bitter AH that was incapable of being civil to me or anyone else.

Her job was to submit a bi-weekly count of the patients that came to her area.
So, she her job was to count no higher than 60 on any given day, write it down on a piece of paper and at the end of the pay period, pick up a phone and leave me a message on voicemail or fax me the sheet.
I offered to do the count myself or go pick up the paperwork, meet her halfway, have them floor clerk do the count, pick it up or send it. I set up and EXCEL file so she could email it to me or the Finance office and offered to show her how to run it.

She complained that I was bullying her, I was a racist, I was trying to eliminate her job. If she took a day off she would hide the ledger or lock it up in her cupboards so no other person could help me. She would make me wait and pass the deadline for submitting the totals, The finance office would call me, I would call her, then call her boss and if I was lucky and she was in the mood, I would get my totals.

I told her boss that SHE would have to find a way to deliver the niumbers because I was tired of chasing her down and getting what I needed. She was a miserable FH dinosaur that refused to work and make a job that was pretty easy, easier.

EVERYONE in that surgery unit was afraid of her and even her spineless boss defered to her and let her run the area because they were afraid of a grievance based on whatever bug had crawled into her nasty old orifices.

There are only three idiots in my professional career that I totally dismissed as being petty pieces of crap. I always tried to be a courteous to them-and worked at it harder- because they found a way to be rude, obnoxious morons and I was going to stand above it and I did.

I had professional respect for them, but as human beings? She did the same thing to everyone she came in contact with, she treated everyone with the same disregard and malice.. She was noting but a miserable biddy who was out to make everyone pay for her bad attitude in life.

I usually have pity on such a poor human being, but she earned every ounce of my contempt and the way I felt about her.

Kill them with kindness?

Nope!

Let them die naturally and as miserable as possible, why take on a murder rap?

[Medusa]

I give up.

[RICHARD]

I give up.

Don't I get a white flag and a sword?

[Medusa]

Don't I get a white flag and a sword?

No, I'm not surrendering. I just give up.