Opinions needed..............

[Daisy and Delilah]

Actually, Mike - I think Tiff's comments to her mom put her in just the right spot for her to work everything out for herself, as she should.

If Tiff has cut Kym off - FOR NOW - then she can go ahead and do it her way. A few good doses of humble pie won't hurt her one bit.

"...if [Jesse} doesn't nail her first." LOL

Kym - sounds like you can let this one slide - Tiff has to figure this out by herself, is PO'd and taking it out on everyone. That is my guess.

HUGS to you...Look after yourself and maybe she will learn to do the same.

Well said!!

[Pawsitive Thinking]

Do you have any other family members living with you? If so, what effect would the change in arrangements have on them?

[DrKym]

My husband my 10 year old son and for 6 months of the year Jaspers 4 kids,
along with 3 dogs 4 big birds, 8 little birds , 13 cats and a snake.

It isn't as much about her as it would be me being stressed over little ones and their fingers with some of the rescue birds, Goof would be crated almost 24/7 as she doesnt like little kids, she grew up with Adrian but hates his friends even so when he has friends over she is crated or in the office with me.

Tiffany needs to simply stand on the feet I gave her, and stop thinking that everyone else owes her anything. I am sorry but I have done my part, the last straw was her saying I won't see the grandkids. I hope her soon to be exes parents will sit for her, oh wait they charge her for sitting.

[Pembroke_Corgi]

Sorry to hear about your tough situation. I just read through these posts and I think you made the right decision.

My brother did the same thing to my mom last year- moved into her house with his 4 year old son. My poor mother, who is the nicest person on the planet and has the hardest time saying "no," aged more in that one year than she has in the last 5. My nephew, while he is smart and cute and a great little guy, can wear a person out in 10 minutes. Luckily, my brother has moved on and she decided if ever he wants to live with her again, she will just say have to say no for her own sanity.