Well, I hate to be bothering you guys right now, but I know I can talk to you all...

Ok, I have this friend that I've had for almost 3 years now, and we used to be the best of buddies. We met online through another friend of mine, and were instantly like the best of friends. I mean, we e-mailed every day, called every week and wrote often too. (she lives in California) I finally got to meet her early last year, and saw her again last September and that was so awesome I can't describe it! Well, ever since mid last year, she's changed. Kat acts like she doesn't really care anymore, never calls, and rarely writes or e-mails. When she does write, she says she cares, but I don't know...she writes out of habit it seems like and just to please me. *sigh* I don't know what to do...should I say something? I don't want to hurt her feelings, but she's just brushing me aside. Maybe she is busy, but I want to be part of her life too! It's so hard, and I've been struggling with it for months! Ok, I should stop...I'm sorry, I know it's something stupid, but I just miss the old Kat so much! Ever had one of those relationships? I know I usually don't start threads like this, but I think it was time to talk to someone...I haven't talked to anyone about it much...my mom doesn't have any good suggestions either. I don't know, this might be stupid, but.....well, I'm confused. Thanks for listening, I really appreciate it!!