Opinions needed..............

[DrKym]

My husband my 10 year old son and for 6 months of the year Jaspers 4 kids,
along with 3 dogs 4 big birds, 8 little birds , 13 cats and a snake.

It isn't as much about her as it would be me being stressed over little ones and their fingers with some of the rescue birds, Goof would be crated almost 24/7 as she doesnt like little kids, she grew up with Adrian but hates his friends even so when he has friends over she is crated or in the office with me.

Tiffany needs to simply stand on the feet I gave her, and stop thinking that everyone else owes her anything. I am sorry but I have done my part, the last straw was her saying I won't see the grandkids. I hope her soon to be exes parents will sit for her, oh wait they charge her for sitting.

[Pembroke_Corgi]

Sorry to hear about your tough situation. I just read through these posts and I think you made the right decision.

My brother did the same thing to my mom last year- moved into her house with his 4 year old son. My poor mother, who is the nicest person on the planet and has the hardest time saying "no," aged more in that one year than she has in the last 5. My nephew, while he is smart and cute and a great little guy, can wear a person out in 10 minutes. Luckily, my brother has moved on and she decided if ever he wants to live with her again, she will just say have to say no for her own sanity.

[kimlovescats]

Sweetheart, don't let her come! She is a grown woman now and how dare her be so selfish as to even ASK when you are having such health problems right now! I know you are concerned for her babies, and you should be, but even still she is their mother, not you!

HUGS,
Kim

[KitCat]

You have to put your own health and wellbeing first.