Opinions needed

[RICHARD]

Tell her to talk to the hospital and tell them that under no circumstances should there be anyone besides the people she wants in the D.R.

We used to have this creepy dude in the operating room where I worked.....He even GAVE ME THE CREEPS...and I don't 'creep' easily...He was always putting his hand on the girl's shoulders and rubbing them up....

A gal that worked with us was going to have a procedure done and she told the OR that she didn't want this guy taking her to or from her room....

They made sure he was no where in sight on that day......

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Tell your SIL that she can arrange this.....and then go to the hospital on the sly...

I get the feeling that talking to your aunt may just set her off.....

[NoahsMommy]

Two words: TOXIC PEOPLE...you have no moral obligation to include people in your life like this.

I'd stay out of it. Your brother and his wife are adults. If they can't stand up to this woman for thier new baby, they aren't good parents.

I know that's harsh, but kids deserve 100% protection and ADULT parents. This baby should not be deprived a good mommy and daddy because of this aunt...its not the baby's fault no one has pulled her reigns in thus far.

EDIT: This woman is your mother's sister? And this father to be is your mother's son?? I think she needs to PROTECT her son from her sister as well.

[Tonya]

Oh, one more thing...For double protection, we're going to "forget" to call everyone until after the baby is born.

[Logan]

The mother (and the father) can control who is allowed in the room............that's what needs to happen. Hope it will all work out ok.

Logan

[catland]

Originally posted by Tonya
Oh, one more thing...For double protection, we're going to "forget" to call everyone until after the baby is born.

Yay - good for you. Give the new mommy and daddy a big PT hug for all of us and good luck on a safe and sucessful birth. Be sure to let us know how everything turns out

(so does it look like they're going to have a tax deduction or will be the baby be born in 2005? )