so they can bite me.
GO Tonya!!!

I also think your brother needs to speak up. He's a man, about to become a father again. It's between the three of them. Period! I'd politely tell her that HE will call HER when the time is right for her to visit. I would also instruct the doctor and the hospital staff that your aunt is NOT allowed in the delivery room, nurse or not, and explain why. Childbirth is a very exhausting experience. The new mother's role is to rest and take care of the new baby, while others do all the stuff she can't. If the Aunt can't take a hint and is THAT loony, she needs to stay home.

Whenever anyone I know has a baby, I always wait a couple of weeks before I CALL and ASK when is a good time to visit.