You SIL and brother could prewarn her doctor that this woman will be trying to come in and upset everyone with her bossy ways, possiably even try to boss the doctor and they would prefer to have her STAY out so the new Mom to be can focus on the task at hand... Here in Louisiana, the doctor has to know in advance WHO is going in and who isn't before you even go in the hospital.. Only "X" number of family are allowed and the ones having the baby decided WHO they want there...

I agree with those that said, having a baby is PRIVATE and I don't like to confront people either but I would be REAL QUICK to to tell that doctor I do NOT want that woman in there and the hospital BETTER keep her out!! (WHY does she have to be called when she goes in... KEEP it quiet until she has her baby!!)

Excuse me here but WHO's feelings are more important to your brother? His aunts or his WIFE'S? He would LET that woman come in and tromp all over the birth of his baby, possiably causeing so much stresss that something would go wrong with the birth??? HE needs to stand up like a man and protect his family!

As far as YOU saying anything... The less stress that day, the easier the birth will be. Don't you become part of the problem by opening your mouth, the last thing needed in the labor room is 2 women going at it so you must either LEAVE or suck it up and keep your mouth shut. You can NOT speak for your brother, he has to speak for himself...

(Sorry if this all sounds to "rough" to you but I am on Dr. Phil's side and can "get real" when I need to.. Did not intend to hurt your feelings)