I am so sad to hear of your grandmother's illness, and how you are feeling.

Amanda just try and spend as much quality time with her as possible, I have never known the love of grandparents or Auntie's or Uncle's having emigrated to nz, so treasure what time she has left with you .

How wonderful that your pet is so loving towards her, I am sure this is bringing her some comfort.

This is a difficult time for you, I am sure your mom did not mean to make you sad the trip home, just wanted you to know the truth and be prepared, so that it would not be too much of a shock for you,she was doing what she thought was the best for you,because she cares and love's you.

Take care , thinking of you, and HUGS.