Quote Originally Posted by wombat2u2004 View Post
But these people are consenting adults, they are not doing anything that they believe is wrong. It's not against the law. They are free to choose how they live their own lives.
Why condemn someone who doesn't look up to your expectations as to how they should behave ???

Yes, they are consenting aduts even if I think they're acting like spoiled brats who want every toy in the store. But condemning them, no I'm not condeming them, I couldn't care less what they think of my values or opinions. Not doing anything that they believe is wrong? Sorry, the fact they they can be found in seedy motels or out of the way places so they won't be recognized makes me think they know that they are doing wrong. I'll just keep working on my own life and they can do what they want with theirs. I see quite a few elderly people in nursing homes who never get visitors...the reason? They chose to wreck their family in favour of a romp in the hay so the family doesn't have anything to do with them. Are they lonely...you bet, too late for them. That romp in the hay wasn't the answer to their troubles but it hurt a lot of people along the way . You reap what you sow has always been my belief.
Funny how the OP went into hiding after the discussion got under way, must be sitting back laughing , reminds me so much of someone else....stir the honey pot and let's see how many bees I get...


Bonny---I have to agree with you about the "in sickness and in health" part.
Anyone who can work through that one deserves a medal. To so many it would be an excuse to justify walking out, bravo to those who remember their vows...forever and ever till death do you part.