Dig your way out of this mess?

[wombat2u2004]

Like I said - different people/different values.
And maybe if those people weren't expending so much energy with ones other than their spouse, they might be putting it into trying to resolve issues of the pending separation/divorce too. That's just a silly thought tho.....

Perhaps they could try some kind of resolution, but usually at that point it's too late.

[pomtzu]

Perhaps they could try some kind of resolution, but usually at that point it's too late.

That's the point I was getting at. At least if they would try, even if it didn't work, then when they do go their separate ways, they might feel better about themselves. I would rather think I put some effort into a possible resolution, rather than running away and seeking solace with others who probably don't give a rat's a$$ about me anyway, no matter how sweet the talk they talk.

Just a little bit of useless info here: if my ex and I hadn't split, today would have been our 48th anniversary. Yup - I really am ancient!!!!