Dig your way out of this mess?

[wombat2u2004]

Wom - #6 I agree with 100% - and that's why I am divorced. However, in the time that this was happening, I wasn't sleeping around, and my ex wasn't spreading his genes around either.

Then you and hubby are a minority. Most people do sleep around during separation and divorce........why is that so wrong ????

[pomtzu]

Then you and hubby are a minority. Most people do sleep around during separation and divorce........why is that so wrong ????

Like I said - different people/different values.
And maybe if those people weren't expending so much energy with ones other than their spouse, they might be putting it into trying to resolve issues of the pending separation/divorce too. That's just a silly thought tho.....

[wombat2u2004]

Like I said - different people/different values.
And maybe if those people weren't expending so much energy with ones other than their spouse, they might be putting it into trying to resolve issues of the pending separation/divorce too. That's just a silly thought tho.....

Perhaps they could try some kind of resolution, but usually at that point it's too late.

[pomtzu]

Perhaps they could try some kind of resolution, but usually at that point it's too late.

That's the point I was getting at. At least if they would try, even if it didn't work, then when they do go their separate ways, they might feel better about themselves. I would rather think I put some effort into a possible resolution, rather than running away and seeking solace with others who probably don't give a rat's a$$ about me anyway, no matter how sweet the talk they talk.

Just a little bit of useless info here: if my ex and I hadn't split, today would have been our 48th anniversary. Yup - I really am ancient!!!!