Oh Cass sweetheart come here and get a big giant Hug,I know you can't but it will have to be a cyber one,I feel so bad for you reading your post, one i did not even know you had been diagnosed with Lupus, i know a little about it as the support group for my fibromyalgia i used to attend also included people with Lupus, i think finding a good support group may well be beneficial to you.


I can only imagine how horrific this was for you, a time that should have been so special,honestly if you were my daughter i would make sure it was a very special day for you, I am just so sorry it was so awful,just know we all love you to bits .

Be so proud of yourself for paying your debts, you really have done so well ,and to heck with those so called friends,you are better off without them.

Anyway Darlin you take care now and


with lots of love and Hugs to a very special member of PT.