Happy Birthday to me :( (Dec. 3rd)

[luckies4me]

Ya, it's not that. I just went to the calendar section and clicked on Dec. 3rd and it was displayed. Oh well. It really isn't that big of a deal lol.

[pomtzu]

Ya, it's not that. I just went to the calendar section and clicked on Dec. 3rd and it was displayed. Oh well. It really isn't that big of a deal lol.

Now that is totally weird. When I checked Dec 3rd b'days, you weren't listed, and your profile only said 30 with no d.o.b. I know I'm not losing my mind!!! Anyway - it's showing now. Maybe Karen could explain????

[luckies4me]

Now that is totally weird. When I checked Dec 3rd b'days, you weren't listed, and your profile only said 30 with no d.o.b. I know I'm not losing my mind!!! Anyway - it's showing now. Maybe Karen could explain????

My dob was entered, but you can choose whether or not you display it publicly...the year. I still had it displayed, so it should have showed up. It's always been the same and has always shown up in the past. I have now edited it to list the actual day publicly (sp?) now. Maybe things have changed since the forum got updated?

[joycenalex]

i am sooo sorry your "friends" shafted you....happy belated b-day, here's to a better year and better friends.

[krazyaboutkatz]

I'm sorry to hear that you had such a lousy b-day. I thought that it was Dec.3rd because mine is Dec.4th. I also looked and your name wasn't on the Dec.3rd list the other day. I thought that maybe if people don't post very much that their names get taken off the list or something like that.

I know how you feel about being forgotten on your b-day. I also feel this way most years. I'm on FB and I have many people on my friends list that I don't really know too well because they're gamers. It's pretty sad when many of them wish you a happy b-day and then the people that I know better don't even acknowledge it.

HAPPY BELATED BIRTHDAY CASS!!! I hope that things will get better in your life.

[carole]

Oh Cass sweetheart come here and get a big giant Hug,I know you can't but it will have to be a cyber one,I feel so bad for you reading your post, one i did not even know you had been diagnosed with Lupus, i know a little about it as the support group for my fibromyalgia i used to attend also included people with Lupus, i think finding a good support group may well be beneficial to you.


I can only imagine how horrific this was for you, a time that should have been so special,honestly if you were my daughter i would make sure it was a very special day for you, I am just so sorry it was so awful,just know we all love you to bits .

Be so proud of yourself for paying your debts, you really have done so well ,and to heck with those so called friends,you are better off without them.

Anyway Darlin you take care now and


with lots of love and Hugs to a very special member of PT.

[chocolatepuppy]

Happy Birthday!
Sometimes 'planned' outings don't turn out as good as those that just 'happen'. I'm sorry you had a lousy birthday.

[luckies4me]

I know how you feel about being forgotten on your b-day. I also feel this way most years. I'm on FB and I have many people on my friends list that I don't really know too well because they're gamers.

Happy Belated Birthday!!! You should add me on facebook!

[Karen]

Have you looked into groups with others who have Lupus, you might find some people there who understand better what you are going through. Try the local hospital, they might know of such things. Sorry you didn't get a birthday thread that day here - I have a friend who, leading up to December 3rd 20-something years ago plastered our campus with "December 3rd is coming " and "December 3rd - THE day!" and no one knew what it was about, until the actual day - he then came early and plastered the whole entrance of the building with "It's my birthday!" He is now married, father of three girls, and we've sort of lost touch, but I bet a lot of other people remember his birthday, too!