The frustrations of needy, clingy men!!

**jennielynn1970** · 03-03-2009, 12:51 PM

Well, I did put the guy in his place and told him that he freaked me out. He was sooo apologetic. He just said he was excited to meet me and that the fact that I canceled made him sad (or something to that effect).

I just said I can talk to him, we can get to know eachother, but I have no idea when we'll meet, if we'll meet. I just want to feel comfortable getting to know him better, and that him being needy and clingy is totally not cool and just not what I'm looking for. He's been not too bad, but I did mention it again today, because again he made a comment about if we'll meet or whatever, and I was just like, I don't know and I won't be made to feel guilty to meet someone. He DIDN'T make me feel that way, but I did put it out there, like, don't use any guilt trips, cause they aren't going to work.

SO, I am giving it a chance, I know he is a little much to handle with his emotions, but I think if he calms down and just treats me like a regular person instead of saying how wonderful and sweet I am, I might just not throw up.

**Catty1** · 03-03-2009, 01:17 PM

RICHARD - here is a list from a Google search.

I guess stalking is an equal-opportunity employer!

http://www.google.ca/search?client=f...=Google+Search

Interestingly, though, females tend to pursue doctors and therapists!

**lvpets2002** · 03-03-2009, 01:31 PM

Originally Posted by Catty1

Interestingly, though, females tend to pursue doctors and therapists!

That is until you have to work with them being A*%@#Holes in Aviation && then you want nothing to do with doctors & therapists or lawyers..

**RICHARD** · 03-03-2009, 02:32 PM

Originally Posted by Catty1

RICHARD - here is a list from a Google search.

I guess stalking is an equal-opportunity employer!

http://www.google.ca/search?client=f...=Google+Search

Interestingly, though, females tend to pursue doctors and therapists!

NO thanks.

I try to meet my stalkers in person, not over the internet.

I where I worked, as soon as a new doctor showed up, you could smell the pheromones in the air. It was rather sad to see them act that way. Most of them ended up being real whack jobs.

THere was a woman who I worked with that found out where my mom worked and went to 'visit' her there, because I didn't come out of my office for two days-I was working on a project-She wanted to find out why I was so busy...

Effing weird.

**Catty1** · 03-03-2009, 02:45 PM

RICHARD, it isn't a list of stalkers, it's a list of search results ABOUT female stalkers (and there are some males in the mix, as many of the results are from studies).

**RICHARD** · 03-03-2009, 04:45 PM

Originally Posted by Catty1

RICHARD, it isn't a list of stalkers, it's a list of search results ABOUT female stalkers (and there are some males in the mix, as many of the results are from studies).

I know.....I was just making a joke.

**Catty1** · 03-03-2009, 06:29 PM

My bad...I must have left my brain in the car!

**jennielynn1970** · 03-03-2009, 09:21 PM

Ugh... ok, so I can't even be "just" friendly. I tried. The overly needy and clingy just gets worse. Should have just removed myself from the get go. He's a nice guy, he just needs to get more self assured.