Amen, Mary!!

Frankly, for me, at 45, I'm not ready to be gray. I tried it. I looked washed out and tired. I am probably 95% gray at this point, my whole head, except for a little patch in the back, on the bottom. I've been going gray since I was about 30, I think. It is worth every dime I spend to brighten myself up. But I agree, to each his own. If you're happy with your hair, then that's all that matters!