I let my hair go gray simply because I am too lazy to keep up with coloring it.

I DO use a shampoo to tone down the yellow. It's a generic bluing shampoo and conditioner that costs about $6 at Sally Beauty Supplies. It's lasted me about a year.

I tried to let it grow but it made me look older. So now I have it cut short, very short. No fussing in the morning

Do what you think is best for YOU! No one else has to look in the mirror.