Opinions sought...teenagers especially and mothers....

[Toby's my baby]

I think having an insentive was a good idea, I think that if she follows through with her end you should let her get it peirced. But do the research and have HER do research too, somehow reading stuff yourself goes through you more than having it come from you mother, no offence to anyone! A lot of my friends got theirs peirce when they were around 13 so i say let her

[buttercup132]

my parents dont care if i get pericings or tattoos ive got my nose done,bellybutton labret (getting tounge) and have a tattoo and im 15 and im not a follower im kind of a setter

[carole]

I don't think Melissa is interested in any other piercings other than the top of her ear, a fairly common one, I actually have found only two places in my city that do body piercing, plenty do ears like at the pharmacy etc, but not belly buttons, one say's sterile conditions , the other say's nothing so I will be checking both out throughly before we do anything, if they don't meet my standard it won't be done.

I have something in mind for her 21st (i know its along way off , but I am a planner) I have my old engagement ring from my first marriage, and my eternity ring from this marriage,(it does not go with my current new rings I have, long story) so i am thinking getting them made into a belly bar in a heart shape or tear drop shape would be neat, it would be worth a lot too, and something she can have as a keepsake, anyway's we shall see.