Is it NORMAL behavior for a teenaged boy (almost 16) to want to run away from home just because he doesn't get his own way all of the time?!?!?
EXAMPLES: He wants to deplete his savings account and buy speakers and a CD player for a vehicle, but he doesn't even have a vehicle to put them into yet, NOR enough money to buy a vehicle!
He tried renting a movie called "All for Lust" at a local Movie Gallery, and they let him do it, but he got caught by his parents and they pressed charges against Movie Gallery for not checking his ID. This was AFTER he had tried this in the past, and both he and the store employees had been TOLD that charges would be filed if he tried it again and they let him get by with it.
He removed chemicals and equipment from his school's chemistry lab to do his own experiments at home, and his mother caught him and reported it to the school and made him take them back, and he got in-school suspension for it.
He had a copy of his parents' vehicle key made, without their permission, so he would have it when the time came for him to run away. His mother found it and confiscated it.
He refuses to do much of his school work, because he thinks it takes too much of his time, and he doesn't want to waste his time doing it. (He consistently earns ratings in the 97th-99th % on standardized tests, and as a seventh grader took the ACT test through Duke University's Gifted/Talented program and got a high enough score to earn State honors for it. )
He thinks he has to act "macho" or "tough" so other kids won't think he's a "wuss" in some situations with peers. He thinks that means he has to get into physical fights in some situations.
He packs two duffle bags with stuff that he is going to take with him when he runs away, but falls asleep before he gets a chance to leave late at night because his Mother stays up until she knows he's asleep, because she doesn't trust him. His Dad finds the duffle bags outside the back door early the next morning, and wakes his Mother up to show them to her.
His mother goes through the bags and discovers that he only packed ONE extra pair of socks, two shirts, NO extra pairs of underwear , NO toilet paper, NO hair gel, and NO extra pairs of jeans. He had duct tape, new speakers, bread, hot dog buns, (no hotdogs), a few canned food items (no can opener, no silverware, no plates), his mess kit from when he was in Boy Scouts, matches, video games and CD's (NO video game machine or CD player), fishing flies and some other fishing equipment, as well as the State booklet on 2005 fishing laws and regulations. These are a FEW of the things he had packed (or DIDN'T have packed but SHOULD have!)
He tells his parents he was going to run away for awhile because they are TOO STRICT
TEENAGERS!!!!!
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