Gosh that's a tough one.
If you leave him home you'll worry about him all weekend.
If you take him you'll worry you messed up the bonding process.
Tho the bonding process will happen on its own time. Paizly has tortietude - she will do things on her own time!
I hope some of the others with more cat experience than me can help.
((hugs))
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