Unlike everyone else, I don't have a lot of good advice but will tell you that I understand your feelings. My significant other and I haven't spoken to my son, daughter-in-law and grandkids for two years as of October. We're not sure what we've done, but after a couple of attempts of trying to get them to talk to us we gave up. They only wanted to see us if they wanted to, but told us we should stop over any time. When we'd go over, the adults would leave the room and leave us with the kids or they were on their way out. We were never invited to family dinners/event; whereas her parents were. We were told at one point that we didn't grandparent the right way.....the right way? Didn't know there was a right way.

The stress of it all was just too much for me. I'm in therapy for depression and anxiety myself. If I think about it, I start crying. Therapist said to wait until I'm stronger before we do anything else.

Catnapper, will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.