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    Shall I adopt her?

    Yesterday I met a little furball at the home-rescue where I help every Tuesday evening. I have been thinking about her during the night, and this morning she is in my mind again!

    Roetje, its her Dutch name meaning little soot because she looks like a ball of fur coming out of a chimney , is all black with a little spot of white hair under on leg (hardly visible). She looks like a British shortair, with a rond face, and very dense but short soft fur. She seems to be a very strong girl, or may it is just her fur... She has the cutest (very) little ears I have ever seen. I am in love with the little furball! She's just arrived at her rescue home so she was still shy but after a few seconds of belly rubs, she was purring. I think she is around 8-10 weeks old.

    We wanted to adopt a friend for Peppito since some time already. First I thought an adult female would be the best choice for him because he is extremely jealous (spoiled) but easily dominated. But perhaps a young girl would be better accepted by Peppito, he would not feel her as a threat? Peppito is also easily peeing when he is stressed or when another cat comes into his home, I am afraid of that when introducing a new cat...

    Many of you have so much experience with introducing a new cat in a home, what do you think???

    I have to be fast, Roetje (will change her name if I adopt her, it is unpronouncable in French!) is not yet among the kitties waiting for adoption, but when she will be on their Internet website, I am sure she will be gone the same day! But anyway, the most important is that she finds a good home, and I will be happy with that! I would even feel a bit guilty to adopt this little pie, while there are many other kitties that people don't want...

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    I always think that the right kitten chooses YOU, and not the other way around. Given that THIS particular one has made such an impression, then maybe she has made up her mind already?

    Re the issue with the introductions - I am not sure what to advise, especially as you already know how Peppito reacts to stressful situations. I am probably the worst person to advise you, as I followed all the " rules" and after two years mine still fight on and off!!

    Could you get some meds for Peppito ahead of time so when the kitten comes home he is already mellow and calm.

    Good luck with your decision - it's hard to help at these shelters without getting attached, isn't it?

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    I would adopt her........if I were you....

    It sounds as though this match was made when you spied her. I would introduce her slowly, to your boy at home, and if all else fails, she will find another new home, but I would try it first!

    Keep us posted!

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    Fate has stepped in! Introducing ANY cat will stress Peppito out, so why not one that will adapt to the change the fastes? An older adult cat might require more adjustment period to Peppito, whereas a little kitten will adapt ina day's time.

    There are tons of threads around here on introducting kittens/cats to your existing cats. Key is to go slow and keep them separated for a few days, so that the kitten can learn her new environment a nd your cat can get used to the new smells of another cat. Slow introductions are key!

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    Sonia do you really think you can come here and hear a "No you should think twice ".

    Asking PT can only mean you have already made up your mind I am very keen to hear how kitty will be named. I think she deserves a more princess-like name than Roetje (which means Sooty ).

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    No doubt about that, Sonia!!We did 2 adoptions here: the first one was Inka who was 9 weeks. The second one was Zazou who was 1 year old then.
    Out of experience, I MUST say that adopting Inka was A LOT easier! Maya accepted Inka as her baby and washed her constantly.
    With Zazou, I brought another adult into the household. It is normal that this much harder to accept to the others!

    So, go and get that kitten!!! YIPPIE PEPITO, you are a BIG brother now!!

    Hey, you didn't take any pics yet???
    I miss you enormously Sydney, Maya, Inka & Zazou Be happy there at the Rainbow Bridge

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    Shall I Adopt Her?

    Quote Originally Posted by catnapper
    Fate has stepped in! Introducing ANY cat will stress Peppito out, so why not one that will adapt to the change the fastes? An older adult cat might require more adjustment period to Peppito, whereas a little kitten will adapt ina day's time.

    There are tons of threads around here on introducting kittens/cats to your existing cats. Key is to go slow and keep them separated for a few days, so that the kitten can learn her new environment a nd your cat can get used to the new smells of another cat. Slow introductions are key!
    Take this good advice & yes do what your heart tells you & Go Get That Adorable Baby..

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    Yes what are you waiting for GO GET HER, she sounds gorgeous, cannot wait to see her pic and for her to become part of the large PT family.
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