Tigger has been taking his "frustations" out on me!!

He wants to smell Emma and when he tries to smell her, she hisses at him...

He doesn't hiss/growl or ANYTHING at her, just meows softly and walks away...

BUT then he'll hiss and growl at *ME* like it's all *MY* fault that she hisses at him LOL

Why is he mad at me whenever Emma hisses at him?? I always try to make sure he's not mad at me, I even feel bad when I put hairball stuff on his paw because he hates it, and now it's my fault that Emma hisses

Don't you hate it when they get mad at you?