I know I complain alot but...*rant*

[Alysser]

I DON'T understand why some people in my family have a PROBLEM WITH what I freakin' wear or what I like. Just now, my sister came into my room to borrow a shirt for a dance, she was going through all my draws and a majority of the shirts are band shirts. I got them at Hot topic or some concerts, and I wear them very often. I also have alot of ugly shirts that I prefer not to wear, my mom bought them for me and I just don't like them...anyway me and my sister have very different styles. What I like is ugly to her, and what she likes is ugly to me. She has a style like my moms. She goes to me "WHY do you where all these ugly boy shirts??". I didn't pay much attention and just ignored her but then she goes onto say "All the bands you like suck!"

I kicked her outof my room, or my mom did. My parents both fully support me with what I wear because they know it is what I like. She continually remarks about music on myspace. JUST because she doesn't like, My chemical romance doesn't mean I care. SHE tells me they suck everyday. I AM so sick of her CRAP!! ugh, she needs to stop being so conceded. I hate her style but I don't say anything about it. If I like wearing band shirts, well just get over it then.

It doesn't end here with her. My sister bugs me about other things to. She tells me I need to stop being so lazy with grades, yet today she got a D+ on her progress report. She also says I hang out with my friends too much and I act immature. I do hang out wit people everyday and I do act immature almost 90% of the time with my friends, but we don't bother anyone. We just make jokes and stuff about one another. We don't shout at passing people or anything. We just talk to each other, and do stupid things with EACH other we never bother anyone else. IF I do enjoy hanging with friends, it's none of her business! It's something I enjoy doing.

Nope, still not done here. She complains about me arguing and talking back to my parents and when she is where me and my parents are fighting she tell me to be quiet. OK, I admit it. I don't always obey my parents and we fight ALOT, and I am very argumentive. But today, my parents were questioning her D+ and she starts screaming, while they are telling her to stop she doesn't listen. Such a hypocrite.

I don't know how I am related to her, she is so opposite of me. I wish we could work out our problems in some way.




Thanks for letting me rant.

[Karen]

Ten years from now, I bet your relationship will be much different. Right now, though, you're both working on becoming who you are gonna be, so conflict is pretty much inevitable.

It's okay to vent, no problem!

[crow_noir]

*hugs*

[Pawsitive Thinking]

Sounds like a perfectly normal sibling relationship to me

[Alysser]

Thanks guys, she just called me immature because I go on roller coasters. I am confused on that, because I don't get what roller coasters has to do with immaturity. I am thinking about not letting her in my room anymore until she stops, it would teach her a lesson since she comes in every waking moment to find clothes or shoes. So we'll see how this works.

[JenBKR]

Is your sister older or younger? My relationship with my sister was quite similar when I was your age. She's 2 1/2 years younger than me, and she always dressed what I called 'prissy.' I was the t-shirt and jeans kinda gal (still am haha). My mom's style is a lot like my sister's. I just want to be comfortable, I really don't care much how it looks. Sis and I sure didn't get along at time, we are so different on so many levels. After I moved out of my parents' house, we got really close. It's funny how much our relationship changed when we didn't live together anymore I know it's not easy, but you'll get through it. ((((hugs))))

[mruffruff]

My sister is 13 years younger than I am. I moved out when I was 18 and she was 5. I was the oldest, she was the youngest. And she was the spoiled brat!!!

We had very little contact though the years. She had her life, I had mine. I moved from Michigan to Ohio and then to South Carolina.

After 46 years, she moved to my town. We found we are a lot alike and are now best friends

Never thought that would happen.

Your room should be off limits to her unless you invite her in (and vice versa!).
She should respect you as long as you respect her, too.

[Argranade]

That sucks,

If it was not for un - mature people this earth would be lame.

I like band shirts but in the girl styles, but what does it matter to your sister?

Why does she not go buy her own clothes?

If my brother said a band I liked sucked I would tell him '' Well at least they don't suck as much as your face does'' Hahahahha! then I would start swearing.... yeah I know it does not solve the problem but I'm no family helping expert lol. I dout your like me so ... just keep your room door locked or somthing?

Sorry.

[crow_noir]

I think so far that is the best advice. Ask to have a meeting with your parents and your sister and ask for your room to be off limits to her unless you invite her in.

Your room should be off limits to her unless you invite her in (and vice versa!).
She should respect you as long as you respect her, too.

[Miss Z]

I don't know how I am related to her, she is so opposite of me. I wish we could work out our problems in some way.

Hehe, I ask myself the same thing every day, "How on earth are my brother and I related?" It's just one of life's rhetorical questions I suppose.

Meh, siblings. Who'd have 'em? I'm sorry she makes you feel bad though. Rest assured she's probably jealous of something that you have other than clothes, so she feels the need to even the scores by degrading your styles.