Ok, so I took her to the Vet and Kalei you were right. She is very healthy and the Vet feels she is being dominate and protective over the kids. She had lots of suggestions. So now she is not allowed to sleep with my daughter and sleeps in a crate. She is not allowed on the furniture, and my husband and I need to walk her and feed her. When she growls at use one of the kids puts her in the crate for about 10 mins. then I come a to let her out. So far so good she is growling much less sometime lets me pet her. I also purchased a Gentle Leader and we put that on today. I was holding her and petting her it was so great. I am also going to be working on the Nothing in Life Is Free program. Thank you all for your suggestions and concern. You guys are great.