Annoying Co-Worker Habits

**Blue_Frog** · 11-29-2006, 03:53 PM

This is kind of a rant / vent, but I had to get it off my chest somewhere

I'm not sure how to address this with the guy who sits over the wall from me -- maybe you guys have some ideas.

I know it's cold and flu season, but that means if you get sick, bring a box of kleenexes in and deal. The guy over the wall has never heard of this invention, and spends the day making those 'gronk gronk grr-umph' noises of someone horking back on their own evil and swallowing it. You know the sound, and it COMPLETELY GROSSES ME OUT. I've had to start wearing headphones, because the noise of him doing that is making me nauseaous.

I don't know how to address this with him. I've thought about bringing in a box of kleenexes and leaving it on his desk, but i'm not sure that he'd get the idea. I know I'm getting frustrated (what with all the stress at work), because the last time he did it abot 5 mins ago, I almost shouted over the wall "GET A #*&^ KLEENEX AND STOP DOING THAT". I didn't, mostly because i don't want HR all over me.

Part of the problem too, is that he doesn't speak the best english and I dont want to offend him, plus it might be something cultural thats acceptable, and that he's always done. I'm kind of at a loss. Maybe I should start working from home more often.

**wolflady** · 11-29-2006, 04:03 PM

Yuk, that grosses me out too. Perhaps you could ask your HR person. Sometimes they can be like an intermediary in situations that might be uncomfortable.

Or, perhaps if you see this person, you could casually say something like: "Sounds like you have a pretty nasty cold. I have found that the kleenexes with aloe in them are more soothing to my nose than others, and my nose doesn't get as red from blowing. Have you tried them?"

**hugs**

**IRescue452** · 11-29-2006, 04:09 PM

I'm just about throwing up thinking about that, I can't imagine hearing it. Headphones are a good idea.

**elizabethann** · 11-29-2006, 06:36 PM

Originally Posted by IRescue452

I'm just about throwing up thinking about that, I can't imagine hearing it. Headphones are a good idea.

LOL.

How about leaving a box of tissues on his desk anonymously? Maybe he'll get the hint?

**Catty1** · 11-29-2006, 07:02 PM

This might help the understanding....

I worked in Japan a few times...and it is absolutely a NO NO to blow your nose in public. You go to the bathroom to do that. It's like deliberately throwing up in someone's living room.

So if these folks are from Asian countries, they feel they are being polite.

Don't know how to handle that...maybe pass out the Halls?

**cyber-sibes** · 11-29-2006, 07:27 PM

Gads, I want to barf just reading this! I sure am glad I work from home!

**Blue_Frog** · 11-30-2006, 10:09 AM

Originally Posted by Catty1

This might help the understanding....

I worked in Japan a few times...and it is absolutely a NO NO to blow your nose in public. You go to the bathroom to do that. It's like deliberately throwing up in someone's living room.

So if these folks are from Asian countries, they feel they are being polite.

Don't know how to handle that...maybe pass out the Halls?

Ya, I think the guy is Korean or something (which is why I thought it might be something cultural, and didn't want to offend him). I'm probabally going to try the 'mysterious' kleenex drop and see if that works.

Until then, its headphones for me

**Blue_Frog** · 11-29-2006, 04:28 PM

Originally Posted by wolflady

Yuk, that grosses me out too. Perhaps you could ask your HR person. Sometimes they can be like an intermediary in situations that might be uncomfortable.

Or, perhaps if you see this person, you could casually say something like: "Sounds like you have a pretty nasty cold. I have found that the kleenexes with aloe in them are more soothing to my nose than others, and my nose doesn't get as red from blowing. Have you tried them?"

**hugs**

HR really doesn't work, since they're offsite and not very approchable, but I might try the kleenex idea if this keeps up. Thanks for the *hugs* - definately needed!

**caseysmom** · 11-29-2006, 04:30 PM

Okay I have the same problem and have griped about it on here a few times! We did go to HR, they talked to him and he got better for a bit...then started up...

This happens with two people and they are both from another country. It is completely disgusting.

**Vela** · 11-29-2006, 05:10 PM

I have that problem too, except they do it directly in my ear via headphones!!! I almost threw up once because a doctor snorted back someting horrid and the sound almost did me in, and I don't have the option of NOT listening to it. Some doctors are SO rude, some eat, fart, cough, blow their noses, etc right in our ears!!! They sometimes drift off and carry on conversations with other people like we aren't sitting there waiting to type the patient report. By the far the worst ever was the snot sucker though...I was gagging. I feel your pain! I don't know what you can do about it, but maybe the tissues would be a nice idea=x heh

**Pembroke_Corgi** · 11-29-2006, 06:17 PM

Yuck, that sounds disgusting. I hate it when people come to work when they really should just stay home. Instead they come and make everyone miserable and potentially infect everyone else with their illness. Sorry you have to hear that all day long.