Horrific News

[Lori Jordan]

My 13 year old daughter just lost her friend Alyse to suicide,what a horrible day it was when she came home yesterday when she told me the news i was in complete dispelief never want to hear about a child nor anyone for that matter.she was only 14 such a sad tragedy....And the way she did it is so sad im lost for words right now!

[finn's mom]

oh my gosh. that is such a horrible thing for anybody to go through, but, especially to lose such a young person. for a young person to feel that there's no other way, wow. i can't even empathize, that's just awful. my chest is really tight, from reading that. that is so sad.

edited: maybe someone will see that it can happen, and, open the lines of communication with their own children because of this...i don't claim to know what happened or that it had anything to do with her relationship with her parents at all. all i can say is hug your daughter for us at pet talk. that must be such a hard thing to deal with as a child. i wouldn't even know where to begin to talk to her. my heart goes out to everyone touched by this.

[Ally Cat's Mommy]

How horrible for everyone involved
I am sending prayers for your daughter, you, and Alyse's family and friends.

I know it's very soon after the event and everyone is still in shock, but will your daughter and Alyse's other friends attend counselling? It's important that they can verbalise their feelings and work through them

(((HUGS)))

[Lori Jordan]

She stayed home today.now im sure the grief councelors will be at school for awile the parents were awful,Said she was a waiste of space I guess she told my Becca that,Becca has been in her room she talks a bit she is going in stages she cries,then she talks,then shuts us out,then has been laughing...at silly things they used to do,Alyse was into that devil worshiping i cannot say that is why she did it she hung herself in her closet on 06 06 06? DO you think that means anything im so stunned and numb could not imagine what she went through,she was being bullied by three girls from what i have heard,Im so sad and angry her mother should have gotten her help which she didnt she was cutting herself also i never knew this until yesterday when my daughter came home she always wore baggy sweaters i would have done something if i had seen anything What a sad thing this baby had her hole life ahead of her..My daughter will have to be taken to councelling she has a look on her face as if she has seen a ghost its scaring me she will be going tomorrow to my doctor.she will not be in school for the rest of this week i cannot send her in the state she is in Lacy is being such a champ she has not left Rebecca's side even at night i tried to get her to come to bed in my room she stayed with Becca and did not move....sweet to see how smart they are and how loyal they are when there family is done"God Love her"

[My Peanuts]

What a nightmare for everyone involved. I'm so sorry.

[Lobodeb]

Suicide is such an ugly thing. Ugly isn't the word. Please get your daughter help ASAP. Group therapy helps, even if she doesn't talk. Somehow, it's comforting just to be in a room full of people who feel the same pain you do. The pain of losing someone to suicide is like no other. It hurts like no pain I've ever felt or can ever describe.

Prayers to you and your daughter.

[carole]

Oh Lori that is devastating news, i am so sorry for your daughter, she will be having a tough time dealing with this, give her lots of hugs and love right now,such a terrible tragedy for all concerned,thinking of you and this poor family who are going through this awful ordeal right now. HUGS.

[Anita Cholaine]

This is so sad
Prayers on the way for Alyse's family and everyone involved. It must be a really hard situation for your daughter and all her friends...

[ramanth]

I'm so very sorry for your daughter to have to experience that.

When I was in High School, my best friend tried to OD on pills. Thankfully her parents found her and the hospital saved her.

She's a different woman now and happily married and I'm happy she's still in my life.

[shihtzulover850]

oh how horrific. She had such a life ahead of her! too sad for words

[Maya & Inka's mommy]

How horrible.......

[Karen]

Tell your daughter she is in our prayers, okay?

[shihtzulover850]

Tell your daughter she is in our prayers, okay?

yes please do!!!

[Lori Jordan]

We had a terrible night i was up most of it with her she is finally sleeping now she was having nightmares last night i went into her room she was standing in the dark looking out her window saying she sees alyse hanging off our tree's i started crying i cannot imagine this how her thoughts are right now so we went outside and she seen that there was nothing there she says Alyse is trying to tell her something?I have never delt with this in my life and i appologize if i might sound selfish im scared that Becca will never be able to overcome some things this was her dearest best friend they have been friends since the two of them have been in diapers i can not imagine i have had friends killed in car wrecks and one friend murderd but suicide is something totaly different the loosing part is the same i now kinda wish Becca did not know how she did it am i bad for thinking this?Im so confused and heart broken that my baby girl has to go through this and the funeral is on Monday we are going i think it would be good for her to say goodbye but will it hurt her in the long run,Now Alyse was such a good kid she was always there when becca needed someone to talk to when she was having problems at school Becca says she owes it to her i want whatever Becca wants im just scared of what will happen after the service.Thank you all so much for all your kindness!!!

[zoomer]

OMG that is horrible, she hung herself? OMG I can't imagine what your daughter is going through... I'm really sorry!