I could just puke...

[sirrahved]

Dump him and don't look back!

[Kristl]

OK, had the talk and...I bitched! But we woked things out. He told the little follower/stalker girl that he did not want anything with her...that he wants us to work out. We are going to both take a step back and look at the problems that we both need to work on...I told him that this crap has got to end. And if it doesn't, I'm out. I think everything went well...of course I had a MAJOR brain fart and couldn't remember anything anyone told me to say, but I got the point across and I do feel better. I think I get really jealous over things...not this issue, but other ones. And I probably need to calm down a bit. Like he said we both know who we're going home with, that is true. But we came to an agreement that we are both going to fix the problems in the relationship and if it still sucks, then screw it. I am so glad we decided that, I love him a lot. I just want to thank everyone for the great advice and support on this! It restores my faith in people! So, "in conclusion", I feel much better, and I have faith in us!

[K9soul]

There's no easy solution and either way you go is going to be hard, but it seems at this point it might be best if the relationship is at least put on hold. Perhaps even if you and him don't end up working out, you could still stay friends with his mom since you seem to get along so nicely with her. I know this has to be a painful and stressful situation. I wish you the best, just try your best to stay true to yourself

[carole]

Kristl there is nothing wrong with trying to work a relationship out, keep at it, it may well be worth it in the long run, and you may look back on this as positive rather than a negative.

Remember don't let Nick get away with too much, he should have done what he is doing now with regard to the girl, much earlier on and saved all this aggro and upsetting you, but at least he has done that now, and that is all good.

I find his comments he will get bitched at rather derogatory, I would tell him to choose his words in future, and if he see's talking about things will only ever end in you bitching at him to quote him, then that is NOT a good start, however sounds like you have come to a better understanding with each other, and can work from there, good luck, relationships are always hard work, both take a good look at yourself's, make some changes, and take it from there, just don't go flogging a dead horse, as the saying goes, and know when to give up, but for now I wish you much happiness , and hope your heart is happy again, maybe you can do something awesome on Valentines Day.