It's just really hard right now...all my friends are "our" friends, his mom calls me her daughter in law, my parents LOVE him. I am glad I can post this here and get some outside opinions. When I talk to my friends about this, they say, "oh, well, screw him. Let's go out drinking." Yeah, like that's gonna help the problem! You guys are right, and I need to stand up for myself. If I don't I'll end up a raving lunatic!