Thanks everyone for all the advice. We've been together for 3 years...I would hate to see that time amount to notheng. Now that I have calmed down, I am a lot more rational. I don't want to throw this all away...I love him very much! He just told me that there are certain things about me that he can't stand and that if I will just make an attempt to try change some things, then he will be more respectful of my feelings. Stupid, yes. BUT I am not perfect. I have had my fair share of "ooops". We are going to eat at Pizza Hut for dinner and talk and I will give an update on the situation. Everyone is 100% right in their replies, and I will kick his rear if he doesn't fix it!!!