First, that is highly inappropriate behavior on her part...but I must say, unless she has no pride, she wouldn't act like that without a receptive audience.

Second, if he is unwilling to get this girl out of his life, he is not worth it!

I looked at your profile, you just turned 23. So I assume you've thought of this guy in a long term way. Be warned, actions are MUCH louder than words and this will be in your life for as long as he is.

Dr. Laura (radio psychologist, author, etc.) says that the way you know if a man deserves you is to ask yourself, "Is he WILLING to swim through shark infested waters to bring me a lemonade?" It sounds silly, but who would want a man that wasn't willing to do ANYTHING for you? Who has the time?

I'm sorry your boyfriend doesn't understand the situation. I hope it works out. You deserve better.

Take care.