I agree with above statement. If you were to stand outside of the situation, like I am, it would be so clear. You dont need that. Noone does. I know you probably really care about him, but its pretty obvious that he doesnt care about you as much... Or he would understand your worries, and tell her to back off. I know that sounds a bit harsh, but I just cant stand seeing a woman get tore down over a little boy that just doesnt get it. Pack your stuff and say GOODBYE. Once you do you will find someone who will be compassionate about your feelings, and make you truly happy. If a guy makes you cry, it just IS NOT worth it. Trust me.

*HUGS* I hope you find the strength to leave now, before it is 2 years down the road, and then you realize, you just wasted a whole lot of time that you can never get back