First of all, I think its none of anyone's business to tell you what to do when it comes to feeding your child. You already know the pros and cons of breastfeeding, and you know what you went through last time. Its your decision...none of anyone else's business. You will do what's best for your child and yourself. I'm surprised someone would even think of talking to your husband about this......especially a MAN!!! That is so wrong!

Second....wow...I never knew your body would even continue to produce milk for 3-4 years after having a child. Personally, I think its really weird to breastfeed a child past the age of 2. Once they can eat everything, they just don't need that milk anymore. I don't think breastfeeding a child with all his/her teeth would be a very pleasant experience for the mother either.