Guess I am a prude too , logan and Tonya, My SIL feed her child till he was about 3 or 4, and I wasn't too keen on it, but maybe we are just being as bad as those who judge us on breast-feeding, just a thought.

Everyone tells you , it helps get your body back in shape, for me it was the opposite, I was so darn hungry the whole time I gained at least a stone, so that was the downside of Breast-feeding for me, and also I was not at all comfortable doing it in public, so I hardly went out with my daughter for those 16mths, and I would always go upstairs if visitors other than my mother or sister arrived..

I think its great Tonya that you have so much support here on this one, just goes to show we are not such a judgemental lot after all, lol.

Regardless I am happy that I managed to feed her myself, and I guess society has made me feel less so and a failure for not for my son,that's what pressure does, we should be proud either way, if they are healthy and well taken care of , and loved that is all that counts.