well, i just want to update you all...i've had my brother let them out their crates and out the back to potty. and today, we went for a walk around the neighborhood with him holding Maggie's leash (my other doggie) and me with Sammie. Half-way thru we traded. when we got home, my bro sat on the couch and Sammie climbed up there with him to let him pet her. it was really nice...he was feeding her some of her food as well and she wasn't as scared. i think Sammie's getting used to him and well as being closer to him.

thank you all for your suggestions!!

cathy