That dress is GORGEOUS!!!

My first thought was, it is YOUR wedding, not his. He had his and he should butt out.

I mean, would he really speak out or be obnoxious during the ceremony? I can't imagine any family or friends letting that happen before either telling him to shut up or leave.

I mean, if he's just going to be grumbling and 'bible' thumping his religion at the reception.... that much I could sort of handle. You could avoid him and I'm sure others would too as religion is a touchy subject.

Or does he have blinders on to how rude that can be in public?


Andy hasn't proposed, though I'm sure one day he will and our religious beliefs are different. I'm pagan, he's Lutheran.

I'd like to have a spiritual wedding, without mention of any specific deity.

Kind of a ... Let the Powers that Be bless this union type of thing.

Haven't mentioned it to Andy, but I hope he'd be for it.