Ashley and her fiancee decided to elope at the same time next year instead.

Some thigns have happened where Ashley was completely in the wrong and admits it. Now his family has disowned him because he chose her over them (he really loves her ) and they said they weren't coming to the wedding. They said "fine, we won't waste money on one!" So they are now taking their wedding to the carribean!

I can't go into the situation, but I feel it is probably the best thing to happen. No, the bad thing WAS a bad thing, but the outcome is that she is going to see a therapist, which I have been trying to get her to for years. She will find a whole new level of happiness once she talks to someone about all the anger she keeps bottled up inside.

I also feel what happened is for the good because Ashley know he'll stand by her no matter what. She has MAJOR abandonment issues.

So, long story short, no wedding. We're not going to the Carribean with them - its their elopement.