I am so sorry to hear about Smitten. It sounds like she came out OK, even if it did not look good at first.

I know that you are nervous about have the other teeth done. However, I would because alot of other issues can stem from oral problems. Ask the vet if there is some other type of anesthesia that can be used if that was the issue. I know that there are alot of things that they can do.

I don't really have any informaiton on teeth brushing. I have never done that with my 2, although I should.

About the only thing that you can do about the people at work is ignore them. Some people just do not have any heart. I would suggest that you just don't tell them anything else about the fur kids. That way you don't have to listen to it. Kim is right, there is nothing stupid about being concerned for kitties.

Please let us know if Smitten goes back and we can send prayers for a succesful proceedure.