I think that J Lo is lost. I think she is a hopeless romantic desperate to be in love and be married yet she is a confused B$%#@, so nothing ever works out for her. On the same line, apparently Ben didn't JUST call the wedding off, he also broke up with her. That seems strange to me. I can see postponing the wedding...but if his love was genuine, he wouldn't both call the wedding off and dump her all in one.