Kirsten, that makes sense...if I am uncomfortable, that should say it all. Feeling paranoid is likely part of it - all those years ago I did feel something was "off" with this guy, not in a bad way, but certainly his reality and mine were totally different.

Thanks for your input, everyone. I did have the odd experience with some wackos during my entertaining career so I guess I am still over-sensitive.

I am so glad I have a place to come, even if it's a silly concern!