Am I being stalked - after 30 YEARS???

[Kirsten]

I say let him think it is a dead account and don't reply at all.

I think I would do the same. Even though I agree with Karen and the others and I won't say it's actually stalking... but you're obviously uncomfortable with that situation, and for that, you shouldn't add fuel to the fire.

[Catty1]

Kirsten, that makes sense...if I am uncomfortable, that should say it all. Feeling paranoid is likely part of it - all those years ago I did feel something was "off" with this guy, not in a bad way, but certainly his reality and mine were totally different.

Thanks for your input, everyone. I did have the odd experience with some wackos during my entertaining career so I guess I am still over-sensitive.

I am so glad I have a place to come, even if it's a silly concern!

[mrspunkysmom]

I am so glad I have a place to come, even if it's a silly concern!

It's not silly. You felt concerned enough to ask for another perspective. And some confirmation of what you already knew was the right action.