Oh i hear you allright and agree with you, i think females spray too when upset,i could be wrong too, but i think they can.

I would be being selfish if i keep her really, as i don't have the money to afford another cat, and my other kitties would suffer because of it if i do, as you are probably aware my Ellie has had major issues and you just don't know what is around the corner.

Just have to hope i find her a good home if not her real home.