Adopting Lab/pitbull mix

[Karen]

Aww, congrats on your new addition. Training, training, training! Obedience training is a good start, and depending on her build, it may be better for her to have a harness than a collar to attach the leash to, as with some "bully" breeds, the neck is bigger than the head, so that can make it far to easy for them to slip out of their collar. Leash training is vital, teaching her NOT to pull is vitally important, as these little powerhouses can be difficult to control if they think they are in charge of things, they're so muscular!

In general (every dog is different, of course) they can be pretty energetic, and sweet as can be, so it's great you are near the park so she can get lots of exercise! After all, we all know a tired puppy is a well-behaved puppy! And lots of "okay-to-chew" things - keep them handy, and hide all the shoes you like, as of course we don't know what training she has had before!

Oh, and when anyone asks, if they seem skittish, just tell them she's a Lab mix, and if they ask "with what?" you can honestly say "some kind of terrier," and hopefully avoid the prejudice people have just because of the name pitbull.

[redrexx]

Aww, congrats on your new addition. Training, training, training! Obedience training is a good start, and depending on her build, it may be better for her to have a harness than a collar to attach the leash to, as with some "bully" breeds, the neck is bigger than the head, so that can make it far to easy for them to slip out of their collar. Leash training is vital, teaching her NOT to pull is vitally important, as these little powerhouses can be difficult to control if they think they are in charge of things, they're so muscular!

In general (every dog is different, of course) they can be pretty energetic, and sweet as can be, so it's great you are near the park so she can get lots of exercise! After all, we all know a tired puppy is a well-behaved puppy! And lots of "okay-to-chew" things - keep them handy, and hide all the shoes you like, as of course we don't know what training she has had before!

Oh, and when anyone asks, if they seem skittish, just tell them she's a Lab mix, and if they ask "with what?" you can honestly say "some kind of terrier," and hopefully avoid the prejudice people have just because of the name pitbull.

Good point. We'll definately take all this into consideration. We pick her up from the shelter tomorrow so we're gonna be "dog proofing" our home as well as buying the ammenities for her today. She's very enregetic and loving but i hope that's not just we had her taken out of the kennel to get aquainted because she definately didn't wanna go back in afterwards lol. I guess we'll be DVR'ing Caesar Milan a lot but i agree the obedience training is key so that'll def. be enforced. thank you very much for the information!

[kfitzp1]

Oh a new puppy how exciting. Good luck with the puppy proofing. Just a tip, think "outside the box" on that one. I have lost a nice pair of glasses by leaving them on the coffee table, and also if the pupperoni turns out to be a counter surfer, keep meds in the medicne cabinet. I know most people do, but I came home one day to a gnawed excedrin bottle and an afrin squeezie that was totaled, fortunately my "angels" didn't get into them.

[luvofallhorses]

First of all Congratulations on your new addition! I Pm'd you a website that is very knowledgeable with pit bulls. However, my advice to you is learn all you can to be a responsible owner for your new girl.

No dog parks!! Dog aggression is very common in this breed and can be managed but not trained out. However, Human aggression is not to be tolerated and these dogs should welcome each person with open paws so to speak and make horrible guard dogs because they are so friendly!! Dog aggression does not equal human aggression just to be clear.

Dog parks are a bad idea anyways for any breed, you don't know what vaccines the dogs have had, and owners just talk while their dogs play without watching them and you cannot trust your dog to be safe there. You can however have supervised play dates that is in a controlled environment.

Pit bulls LOVE, LOVE people and do not need doggie companions as they weren't originally bred to fight other dogs, they were bred to bait bulls in the beginning but Dog aggression (DA) has and will always be part of their history and you may not like dog fighting and I am NO way advocating it..

but it's in their genetics to be aggressive towards other dogs. If you have another dog do not ever, ever leave her unsupervised with your other dog or other animals.

Pit bull ownership is rewarding, but you must be responsible and have thick skin. If you were to get another dog, always get the opposite sex but it doesn't mean 100% that they will get along. I am sorry Karen with all due respect, but I do not agree she should lie about the dog's breed to people. It will be a chance to educate and change a person's mind.

Unless she looks like a lab, I wouldn't worry about it lol. But she may look more like a bully breed as she gets older and you will want to educate! Also, for her to be safe (and your house) crate her when you leave and especially if you have other dogs/animals. You must have thick skin with owning this breed.

If someone says something to you like "Oh I don't care for pit bulls" and it upsets you; just smile and walk away. You do not want to blow up at them, education is the key. If you do not want to educate, just smile and keep walking with your dog. I would like some pictures of her, please.

Here are some links you and your girlfriend can look at -

http://badrap.org/rescue/breed.html
http://badrap.org/rescue/myths.html
http://badrap.org/rescue/owning.html
http://badrap.org/rescue/responsible.html

[Karen]

Pit bull ownership is rewarding, but you must be responsible and have thick skin. If you were to get another dog, always get the opposite sex but it doesn't mean 100% that they will get along. I am sorry Karen with all due respect, but I do not agree she should lie about the dog's breed to people. It will be a chance to educate and change a person's mind.

I said only to say that if people seem skittish around her. And it is NOT a lie, she is a Lab and a pittie is a terrier, so saying she's a Lab/terrier mix to someone who seems like they might be nervous is advised. Once you get to know them, and they get to know your dog, you can say that her "terrier" part is pitbull terrier, and can point out whatever positive characteristics she got from that side, and THAT will help educate.

And not every dog park is full of irresponsible people, or unvaccinated dogs. Many dog parks have rules about dogs needing to be vaccinated before people are allowed to bring their dogs in. Check out any dog park, and how she reacts with other dogs before bringing her to one, of course.

Dog aggression is not true of every pittie or pittie mix, every one is different and it is always smart to be cautious when meeting new dogs or people, regardless of breed.

[luvofallhorses]

You know I am not trying to argue here Karen. I still stand by what I said. You know I do not have an APBT or bully breed right this moment, but I did years ago and have learned all I can and will be prepared. I am just saying that he should be prepared, that is all.

I do not expect him to shove their Pit bull mix down someone's throat, however if he wants to educate so be it. Heck I work at an animal shelter and have to educate all the time about pit bulls since we always have them. I want owners to be prepared and you cannot ignore something that is a part of their history and genetics.

They just cannot be blinded by it. You're right not all of them show it, but a lot of them do and you have to expect it. 95% of them do show it and I have seen it.

If another dog starts a fight at a dog park and his dog reacts, the pit bull will always be blamed and that's one more news story this breed and responsible owners cannot afford. This breed is in enough trouble as it is, so I am just saying be prepared and be responsible.

[Taz_Zoee]

I also don't agree with the "no dog parks" statement. That is the best way to socialize a new dog. Now, if they go to a dog park and discover the dog is dog agressive, then sure....no dog parks.

I was also going to suggest lots of socialization, period. With people and other dogs. I've learned this the hard way with my first dog. She is not agressive, but she just gets so excited she can't control herself around other dogs. Had I done more socialization when she was younger I probably would have avoided this. My second dog is fine. And I didn't socialize him too much either. Could just be different personalities, I suppose. But anyway, lots of socialization.

Oh, and we'd love to see pictures of your new pup too.