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    I think everyone is different, and know when they wish to get married.
    My mother was married at 16, and 9 months later I popped out. Mum and Dad were married for 51 years (Dad passed away in 2000), and life was always good to them, and their marriage was terrific. Mum can now sit back and enjoy her children, grandchildren and great grandchildren.
    Me, I was married when I was 24, again at 43, and again at 59.
    A sucker for punishment ????

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    I'm sort of with Cataholic...I dont' think marriage makes sense unless there are kids involved. I know there are a lucky few that find "the one" and are together forever. I've always had long term relationships...10+ years. But I've always found that I grow and change and people grow and change and odds of us growing in the same direction aren't likely.
    Regarding "celebrity" marriages, I think they are doomed no matter the age

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    Quote Originally Posted by kitten645 View Post
    I've always had long term relationships...10+ years.
    Why?

    When you can have a bunch on one day?

    http://petoftheday.com/talk/showthre...hlight=affairs

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    I have to agree with there is no magical age or right age to marry, for each and everyone it is different, when my niece married she was only 18 her husband to be 19, they have been together since 14 and 15 ,now happily married for over seven years and two babies as well, i was worried they were far too young, but they certainly seem very happy together.

    My sister was married at 18 and also my mother, a bit of a pattern here,except me i married first time at 22 then at 34.

    If i were to choose an age it would be probably around 25 or 26, because you have had time to do a few things in life, travel etc, meet various people, and still young enough to start a family, although that does not seem to be the case nowadays, as women are choosing to have their children later in life.

    I had a child earlier in life and one later in life, and i speak here personally for me it was better having them earlier in life, only because of my ill health really, otherwise it made no difference.

    I just cannot imagine ending up marrying the men i knew when i was 16 or 18, but then i still made a mistake at 22, so you see age does not necessarily help you to make the right choice,but for me when i was younger i simply had no interest in marriage or children.
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    You can get married at any age. It depends on who you pick for a mate & if you can keep it compatible. No one is perfect & it takes lots & lots of work to hold it all together. It is a work in progress 42 years of it for me & what his name.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bonny View Post
    You can get married at any age. It depends on who you pick for a mate & if you can keep it compatible. No one is perfect & it takes lots & lots of work to hold it all together. It is a work in progress 42 years of it for me & what his name.
    Agreed. But I think it's very important for a man to choose a woman with small feet, so that she can stand closer to the kitchen sink

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    I think a man's age to get married should be around 26 or 27. and a girl, I'd say 18 - 23. My mom got married at 21 and so did my sis. My bro might get married in December. So he'll be 26-7. That's what I say.

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    Quote Originally Posted by wombat2u2004 View Post
    Agreed. But I think it's very important for a man to choose a woman with small feet, so that she can stand closer to the kitchen sink
    Women with little feet use paper plates, plastic spoons, fork,knifes & paper cups so there are never any dishes. They are also very smart these women with little feet they also trick their husbands into taking them out to eat.

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    Quote Originally Posted by wombat2u2004 View Post
    I think everyone is different, and know when they wish to get married.
    My mother was married at 16, and 9 months later I popped out.
    Why and where was she hiding you?

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