Do you look old?

**Randi** · 06-06-2010, 01:11 PM

I just don't get it... people going in to have Botox injections every now and again, and worse - facelifts and boob jobs etc. Have you seen what they look like 10-15 years later? I watched a programme on TV recently and saw what it involved - good grief!

Oh yes, I would certainly like to look younger, but not at all costs! I'd rather have back the energy I had years ago.

Btw, I've always looked younger than I am, but I think we all have to face it, once you're past 50, you will get wrinkles.

Live with it!

Someone posted a thread here some time ago (years?) with links to what people looked like before and after treatment, that should scare anyone enough from having it done.

**Marigold2** · 06-06-2010, 03:30 PM

I think Joan Rivers looks great and at 75 she has boundless energy.
As for Botox, you would be shocked at how many people have it done and most people don't even know. I notice because I see the patients all the time but if a person has Botox done right you would not notice anything but a person who looks a bit fresher.
Those lines around the mouth are filled in with fillers and like magic those lines are gone and no one knows. A half an hour you walk out the door looking great.

**Karen** · 06-06-2010, 03:35 PM

I just don't see the point of cosmetic surgery for most people for vanity's sake. They'd likely holler good and loud if someone took 10 year experience of their resume arbitrarily, why worry about looking live you've lived those years?

**Marigold2** · 06-06-2010, 08:32 PM

Some jobs require looking ones best everyday. Men use botox, whiten their teeth, color their hair almost as much as women do.
Looking good sends out a signal that you are a healthy individual and up for the job.
It's not so much about being vain as it is looking the best one can, some jobs are about image. Sales for instance, you are not as likely to buy something from a disshelved person as you are from someone who is put together well.
Shiny shoes, a good haircut an execellent suit make a big difference in sales especially if you are selling a high priced item. BMW salesmen don't wear shorts and T-Shirts to sell you that new car, nor do the girls at the makeup counter at Macys.
Most Drs wear suits, so do most lawyers, CEO, medical sales rep are always dressed lovely, the women all wear dresses and the men suits. Real Eatate people are fancy dressers.
It's important to look successful and dress the part whatever that might be.
My husband has been in sales for 30 years and he knows that you buy the product from the salesman and he or she has to sell themselves before recommending a product.
If you and another person have the same skills but that person is dressed nicer then you or their teeth are whiter or their shoes shine more they will most likey get the job.
Like buying a home, the three most important things location, location, location.
It might not be right to judge a new candidate on their apperence so much but I for one will always wear a suit to an interview. Can't hurt.

Originally Posted by Karen

I just don't see the point of cosmetic surgery for most people for vanity's sake. They'd likely holler good and loud if someone took 10 year experience of their resume arbitrarily, why worry about looking live you've lived those years?

**kokopup** · 06-06-2010, 10:37 PM

Appropriate dress is essential to any job. Before I retired most of my customers would prefer having a gray haired Engineer to a young one anyday. Maybe the BMW salesman needs to be young, but in the Automation engineering industry experience is valued much more than looks.

**mruffruff** · 06-08-2010, 11:57 AM

I must look old 'cause I get the senior discount without anyone asking my age!

I feel better when I put on some make-up and fix my hair. However, I do wear a wash&wear hairstyle and haven't worn a dress or skirt in a dozen years. I hate to even run to the store looking like a slob.

These days everyone seems to be younger than I am.

**Cataholic** · 06-08-2010, 12:02 PM

Someone I know personally (mid 40s) met with her first of two potential plastic surgeons for an 'estimate'. She wants her eye lids done, and gets a chemical peel all thrown in for a little over $5000.00.

**pomtzu** · 06-06-2010, 05:53 PM

Originally Posted by Marigold2

[FONT=Arial Black][COLOR=purple]I think Joan Rivers looks great and at 75 she has boundless energy.

Sure she looks good. With her money and a good doctor, I could look that good too.
I wonder what she would look like without all of the procedures that she has had?? Probably just another wrinkled 75 year old. As for her energy - well I can say I envy her for that.