Marigold - as usual, you have twisted the issues at hand to suit yourself to avoid being put on the spot and responding with some intelligence. This thread is all about a brain damaged individual whose husband is keeping her children from her, and whose parents choose to spend their life caring for her at home, rather than shipping "veggie salad" off to a nursing home. This has nothing to do with concentration camps, nothing to do with how you would expect your children to respond if you were the brain damaged person, nothing to do with the fact that you consider yourself "cute", nothing to do with rude (honest as you claim) comments you make to people (and by your own admission), and on and on.......

I was interested to hear what you would do if the tables were turned, as I asked in post #21, where it be YOUR DAUGHTER that suffered a brain injury, and you are her mother. Do you call her "veggie salad" without knowing if she can hear you, do you put her in a nursing home and visit once a month or so, only to make sure that she is getting proper treatment, get on with your life and be happy and active and live life to the fullest??? Is that what you would do for YOUR DAUGHTER??? After all, the cards have been dealt, she's not really "living" anyway, so what does it matter anymore. What about the love you claim to have for her?? - did that somehow change when her life changed???

I guess you never did read anything about "the man who slept for 19 years", either. That should give a glimmer of hope to anyone that has a loved one with brain damage. So with your non-answer to my post and asking about what you would do if the issue was in your lap, then you really have answered loud and clear afterall!!!

Such a cold, impersonal, selfish person...............