I'm not too worried about it. If he leaves it'll be a good thing in the end. Her & his parents are close & his parents & the whole family aren't those kinds of people. They wouldn't allow Sean to not pay for support, they would kill him if he tried, or his sister in law would rip off his head. My sister is VERY much part of their whole family, they love her dearly, considering they took her to Ireland for a week + their other two sons & their g/fs... They will be P-ed about it happening out of wedlock & thats about it.

If things do get ugly, She'll come here. Her b/f will be far too lazy to come to this city to visit, so the baby will be better off.

My sister made it quite clear to him that if she got knocked up before they had planned it, it WILL be kept, period... She wasn't lying when she told him that, so I don't see why her word means less then his. Her word will always trump his as its her body. So if he really didn't want kids or didn't want them yet, he should have locked Mr. Happy up until he was ready to take responsibility for his own actions.