Marie Osmond son kills self in jump from building

[carole]

Blue your lack of compassion simply disgusts me.

I feel i can speak on this subject,until you have walked in their shoes ,you have no idea what you are talking about.

Suicide is neither cowardly, or selfish or anything even close to that.

Why did you even come in this thread just to post such a horrible comment.
Yes it really offends me and I will tell you why further down in my post.

I can only feel deep sadness for Marie Osmond and her family and of course her poor tormented son.

To take one's life, you are at a point where nothing matters anymore, you cannot possibly even begin to understand how these people must be feeling.

They cannot even consider anyone else, they are so tormented and to a point they cannot see anyway out except to take their own life..and yes they are not thinking right.

And yes i have experienced the pain of loosing a family member to suicide, my Aunty took her own life about five years ago, she seemed to have everything, she was wealthy, a loving husband, gorgeous grandchildren, and seemed happy enough.

She had experienced severe depression and was on medication for it, but sadly it was not enough, her own daughter is a medical doctor and could not help her.and no-one knew she was about to do this either..to this day we are left with why? we don't really know except that the depression was overwhelming and nothing could make her feel better.

So please before you post,think a little please.

My sincere condolences go out to Marie and her family,how awful to loose someone so young this way.,such a tragic loss.

[wombat2u2004]

Suicide is neither cowardly, or selfish or anything even close to that.

To take one's life, you are at a point where nothing matters anymore, you cannot possibly even begin to understand how these people must be feeling.

Yep, gotta agree with you there Carole.
You've hit the nail right on the head.
My thoughts exactly.

[phesina]

Thank you, Carole.

[carole]

You know Phesina i am not the only one to have had this type of tragedy in their family, many on PT know exactly how it feels, and when i see a thoughtless comment posted like that, I simply cannot let it be,it was even thoughtless to poor Marie Osmond and her family.

I am not sure that Blue mean't to hurt or offend,he was just saying how he felt i guess, but i just don't think it was appropriate for him in this thread.

Candace i would not even call it self-centered, IMO they don't even care enough about themselves to feel that way,you know i think it takes courage to end your own life,i could never do it.

Anyhow let us move on and keep the thread about what it mean't to be about, the tragic loss for the Osmond family,may they find some comfort at this very difficult and sad time in their lives.

I hope their strong belief in God will help to ease the pain and suffering they are going through right now.

[Catty1]

Carole - I do wish to explain that using 'self-centred' was a way of trying to describe how very wrapped up in one's own head one gets when severely depressed - which I have been.

It is a horrible symptom, and not a weakness of character at all.

ETA: Michael was 18.

ETA 2: November 14, 2007 http://www.eonline.com/uberblog/b567..._in_rehab.html

The singer confirmed Wednesday that her 16-year-old son, Michael, entered rehab last week for undisclosed treatment.

"My son Michael is an amazing young man, shown through his courage in facing his issues. As his mother, I couldn't be more proud of him," she said in a statement. "The press and public have always been kind and gracious in the past, and I know they will continue to respect our privacy during this time."

[carole]

I understand, thanks for explaining Candace,I mis-understood, but should have known that you would have mean't it kindly.

[DJFyrewolf36]

Ive been there...I came back from the dead technically. I overdosed on OTC pain medication and almost died. I was told in the hospital that my liver function would be impared...I got lucky that after a while everything went back to normal and I didnt have lasting damage.

What was I thinking? I just wanted everything to stop. At the time I had just moved back in with my parents after a rough time at military college. I was 18, involved hevily with TWO women (long story) and I was working a very stressful job with a LOT of responsibility. I had been dealing with prolonged depression as well. At the time I felt like there was only one way to make everything go away at once without being around to care if anyone thought I was a failure.

I feel for these people. They will never understand what their children were going through because they weren't able to tell them. It was only through coming back that I had the courage to come forward to my parents about my depression and admit that I needed help. Before something catastrophic happened, I thought I could deal with it on my own.

[carole]

Thank you for sharing such a personal situation, i think it really helps people to understand.