No no no no no !!!!!!!!

[wombat2u2004]

No if I were ELIN I don't think I could get over THAT kind of deceit. I don't think I could. but she's willing to try so I'm not going to judge her harshly for that. It might not be something I could overcome personally but I don't think people should or shouldn't do things because it's what I would or wouldn't do. they need to decide for themselves and she's decided to try so Good luck to her. It's her decision and I hope it works out for her family.

Yeah, I do agree with you to a certain extent Sparksy, but it's just that I feel so sorry for her. And I'd be pretty sure that the wonderful life she has had so far will take a worse turn.
I mean, going out to restaurants and stuff, and people looking at her and thinking what they will......it's gonna be real hard on the poor girl.

[sparks19]

Yeah, I do agree with you to a certain extent Sparksy, but it's just that I feel so sorry for her. And I'd be pretty sure that the wonderful life she has had so far will take a worse turn.
I mean, going out to restaurants and stuff, and people looking at her and thinking what they will......it's gonna be real hard on the poor girl.

yeah I definitely agree with that. I feel bad for her too and those poor kids. As for the restaurant thing... she was going to get that no matter what. I think that would make this whole thing that much worse. the fact that EVERYONE knows and is staring at me and talking about it.

[wombat2u2004]

yeah I definitely agree with that. I feel bad for her too and those poor kids. As for the restaurant thing... she was going to get that no matter what. I think that would make this whole thing that much worse. the fact that EVERYONE knows and is staring at me and talking about it.

Yep, and I reckon it will probably happen for many many years to come.