No if I were ELIN I don't think I could get over THAT kind of deceit. I don't think I could. but she's willing to try so I'm not going to judge her harshly for that. It might not be something I could overcome personally but I don't think people should or shouldn't do things because it's what I would or wouldn't do. they need to decide for themselves and she's decided to try so Good luck to her. It's her decision and I hope it works out for her family.