Moral Dilemma

[lilybean]

It is such a personal decision, deciding to euthanize...But if the cat is not ill...All I can say if it were mine, I'd provide him with his own room and spend as much time in there with him as I could. Let him finish living his life as King of His Room.

YES. I totally agree. I can't imagine doing that to a cat I have had that long. Let him live out the end of his life in dignity if he is not ill. I'm so sad for this boy, I pray they have a change of heart or that someone can help him.

[carole]

Pinots Mom can you find out why they have chosen this option, is it because they don't want to wait until he is ill, or they cannot be bothered with him now he is old, i feel somewhat confused on their reasonings.

I could well understand if he were ill and they chose not to medicate and prolong his life, that is a very personal decision and some people believe when old age and illness strikes a pet then the best and most humane option is to euthanize,and not prolong life with meds.

This decision they seem to have made just does not really make sense to me and i cannot understand their logic,if you can explain would be helpful.

[Pinot's Mom]

Sorry, carole, didn't mean to ignore your question - I'm out of town and not checking that often.

The "reason" is that the one year olds have started going to the bathroom all over the house and for some reason they think it has something to do with the older kitty.

[carole]

Ah Yes i remember you posting that now, but thought surely there must be another reason, that is absurd, you really must try and talk with your friends, you say they are loving,caring people and good friends, so you should be able to talk freely with them about it and hopefully convince them differently,maybe their kitties have UTI's or something, i bet they never considered that might be a cause for them peeing where they should not.

Good luck with trying to change their minds, as this really is the most unfair thing i have ever heard.

[Catty1]

I think the problem is with the younger kitties...maybe THEY should have a vet checkup. I mean - what if they have their way with the older kitty and STILL have the same problem? I am thinking if you put to them the MONEY aspect - that they would then have extra vet bills, and it is more economical to get the young ones checked first, they might do that.

Considering they don't 'listen to reason', they might listen to the money/hassle of extra vet trips perspective.

[Taz_Zoee]

I think the problem is with the younger kitties...maybe THEY should have a vet checkup. I mean - what if they have their way with the older kitty and STILL have the same problem? I am thinking if you put to them the MONEY aspect - that they would then have extra vet bills, and it is more economical to get the young ones checked first, they might do that.

Considering they don't 'listen to reason', they might listen to the money/hassle of extra vet trips perspective.

This is what I was going to say! Give them suggestions on ways to eliminate the pottying issue the younger cats are having. Vet check, feliway calming spray or plug in....I can't think of any other ideas at the moment. Maybe tell them that it may not be the older cat at all that is causing this (you may have already done this). Anyone else have suggestions on what they could do in terms of the younger kitties not using the box???

[krazyaboutkatz]

You can also tell them to buy some Cat Attract Litter by Dr. Elsey which they can get at Petsmart. I know it's on the expensive side but it works. It helped me when I was also having inappropriate peeing issues. I just put some of it on top of the old litter that I was using. They may also need more litter boxes. Even though the cats are indoor/outdoor,they may not like using the bathroom outside. They should have at least 3 litter boxes in low traffic places so that they'll have some privacy. Some cats also don't like covered litter boxes. Good luck.